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In this review of His Secret Obsession program by James Bauer you will learn what’s good about the course, what’s not good about the course, the price, and what makes the course special.

But before we get started, I want you to see what the word “obsession” really means:


Yeah, it’s pretty hot and you can get that by following the rules in the book.

1. What is His Secret Obsession

His Secret Obsession is a 200 page book designed to solve your relationship and dating problems such as:

  1. He’s totally distracted by his work
  2. You can’t get an alpha male that cares about you
  3. He doesn’t care about making you #1
  4. He’s checking out other girls and possibly cheating
  5. He doesn’t see you as a girlfriend/ wife
  6. You need to initiate every conversation and he doesn’t care to listen
  7. You feel like he can leave you at anytime
  8. You see your man spending time with girls prettier than you
  9. You don’t have any control of the relationship, he does what he wants when he wants
  10. He is detached and you are desperate to rekindle the passion you had
  11. He makes excuses to spend time at work and with his buddies


2. How does His Secret Obsession work?

The program is founded on the principle that men want to be heroes. And if you can say the “obsession phrases” and encourage him to be your hero, you’ll make him completely obsessed with you.

James Bauer writes:

“…It’s because the Hero Instinct is a BIOLOGICAL DRIVE just like hunger, thirst, and sex. But once this drive is triggered it becomes more powerful than all 3 combined. Which makes it virtually impossible for him to ignore… When you know how to trigger a man’s Hero Instinct, his heart will be yours, and yours alone. And he’ll go to the ends of the Earth to make you happy.”

In other words, James Bauer’s book is not dealing with a man’s conscious mind, instead you are pressing deep, subconscious triggers that he doesn’t know exist.

So one day you’ll start using on of the “Secret Obsession Phrases” on your man, not even knowing what happened to him, will give you his complete devotion.

He will feel completely different.

It’s actually much deeper than just “obsession phrases” because the book teaches how to ignite a man’s love and devotion, for example:

  1. Giving his a way to impress you and not trying to impress him
  2. How to get your first taste of real love in a natural way
  3. How to make him miss you and realize your special
  4. How to flirt with the man you want and unlock lasting love

3. How much does His Secret Obsession cost?

His Secret Obsession costs $47 with a 60 day money back guarantee.

You might be thinking: isn’t that too much? But let’s compare it to some other dating courses:

  1. Connect And Commit by Meet Your Sweet costs $167!
  2. The Women Men Adore by Bob Grant is also $47, but if you want to be included in the The Women Men Adore Club, you need to pay another $39 a month!

And you have to remember, James Bauer is a bestselling author, trained psychologist and has decades of experience as a relationship coach. You are only getting the best of the best with this program.


4. Pros

I always say no course is perfect, but there are many things I specifically like about this one:

  1. It’s well priced
  2. All his claims are backed scientifically and sometimes by massive studies
  3. You get instant access
  4. You get the Ebook and audiobook version
  5. There are no fluff pieces, he tells you what to do right away
  6. It’s written by a professional
  7. The book is well written
  8. There is a lot to learn with over 200 pages of content
  9. Many women have seen concrete results

A very unique program.

5. Cons

Here’s what I don’t like about the book:

  1. It can get a little too deep at times
  2. There is a lot of content to read
  3. The price can be too much for some

But overall I’d say it’s a great deal.

6. Alternatives

There are a couple of alternatives to His Secret Obsession:

First of all, you have Connect And Commit by Meet Your Sweet, and although it offers a little more, it costs a crazy $167!

And the second one we mentioned was The Women Men Adore by Bob Grant. It’s a cool course, but if you’re looking for a concise system that just works – stay with James Bauer. Plus The Women Men Adore costs $47 and if you want to be included in the The Women Men Adore Club, you need to pay another $39 a month! That’s almost double the price!

7. Conclusion

In conclusion, His Secret Obsession is a solid course, but you don’t trust me! There are so many great customer reviews and happy women that have seen massive transformations. This is also why this course is wildly popular. It may cost a pretty penny, but it’s well worth it especially considering the 60 day money back guarantee.

Your friend,

Colt Smith


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