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How To Make a GIRL HORNY And FREAKY In 12 Ways

You are asking how to make a girl horny because you are looking for some ideas, right?

But what’s so complicated? You know how you get horny, right?

Ah’ you already know the answer. Women are completely different from men.

how to make a girl horny

They talk, eat, and get horny much differently than you. Although I wish they weren’t that different…

Imagine being able to walk around naked and turning a girl on! That’s the dream.

But that doesn’t mean that making her a crazy, lustful beast has to be difficult. 

You can learn the principles of arousing a girl and turning her on. Although the main concept is that men get horny for visual things and women get horny from invisible things.

In other words it’s about the invisible masculine energy. 

It’s about insinuating dirty thoughts in her mind.

Revealing your sexual intention to her.

You aren’t hiding from anyone your own sexuality. You are showing complete dominance over her.

Making her soaking wet isn’t about giving her what you want. It’s about giving her what she wants.

(To give credit where credit is due I must tell you that I learned all 12 techniques from the 1st seduction course I’ve ever taken. I’ll tell you more about it at the very end.) 

1. give her time

The first thing girls like is when you build up slowly. They love the journey to sex as much as the sex itself.

The journey to sex starts the moment you approach her on the street. But you gotta start slow. [1, 2]

That’s why the first thing you do is offer her a compliment. Learn how to give compliments, it’s well worth it.

Don’t be afraid to be a little sexual, such as “I don’t want to offend you, but you have an amazing body.”

You are showing that you desire her. You can also be specific about your compliment such as her stunning eyes or lips.

Then you can introduce yourself. And while you are doing that shake her hand. Don’t do it the businessman way.

Lightly hold her hand for about 10 seconds. Let yourself feel her hand. Don’t rush this part.

After you’ve approached her properly and you got her number don’t just walk away, give her a nice long hug.

And just like the handshake, take your time. I know you are feeling worried and you just want to run away with her number, but you must give her a strong hug.

Tell yourself that you will hug every girl you meet for at least 3 good seconds before you let her go. This way you get control over your own fear.

You can also call this “getting friend-zone protection”. You are making it abundantly clear that you are looking for a sexual relationship.

2. Be the desirable man

This is something you need to work towards over time. You want to make this girl proud to have you as a boyfriend.

She wants to have her friends look up to you too. You need to become a desirable man.

What does that mean?

build confidence

Really. 

When I told you earlier that girls are attracted to “invisible” things this is what I mean. Even if you are average looking, but you have some rocking confidence she will always find that “something” about you that’s attractive.

As a girl feels attracted to you, she will feel more attracted to your physical appearance.

And confidence takes time to build, don’t get me wrong, but it’s worth working towards.

The next thing you can do is:

Get a six pack

I am 100% serious. 

Not just your abs, but also your arms and shoulders. You will be eye candy for girls soon.

Head over to the gym and start working out. Whatever works for you, if a workout program works for you then go do it!

The last thing is something you change almost instantly.

Dress like a man

Learn to have that masculine look. You aren’t trying to look like a pretty girl, you are aiming for that manly, rugged look.

Read how to look more masculine if you are having trouble with that.

3. Let her be OK with her own sexual desires

As I mentioned girls get horny too. They are surprisingly sexual.

(The following podcast is by Sebastian Harris, the creator of the best general seduction course: The Rise of The Phoenix – a MUST for any aspiring seducer)

But to get to that sexual, aroused place in her you need to take down the barriers to her sexuality. 

What are those barriers?

The first one is that girls want to seem feminine. They want to feel accepted and approved of, but acting like a sexy beast will make them feel that they are not being feminine.

That’s why they hide their own sexual desires. They feel ashamed of wanting IT.

Girls are also petrified of rejection. We men have been rejected 10’s of times by women, but most girls have almost never been rejected.

They don’t have that thick skin to have the courage to show their sexual desires.

That means you need to make her feel that it’s 100% OK for her to be sexual around her. The best way to do that is by being sexual yourself.

You can also assume that she’s being sexual around you. Tell her something like this “Please don’t try to turn me on that quickly, you know how sexy you are”.

Another solution is to tell her about another slutty girl that you found super attractive. Tell her about the things that she did with you and how that got you horny. 

You are showing her that you love women that are overtly sexual. Now she knows what she can do with you.

You have set the guidelines. [1, 3]

(There are many more ways to release a girls inner slut, but I can’t give away everything in the course that I first learned this all from…. sorry, but I’ll tell you more about it at the very end.)

4. Release stress

This is true if she’s your girlfriend and you just met her or you’ve just approached this girl on the street: girls feel stress. 

And when girls are feeling stressed they are not in the mood of pleasure.

The goal is to put her in the mood for pure sexual pleasure.

The less stress she feels the more horny she’ll get.

Here are some tips to relaxing any girl you meet:

Be funny. Making jokes is the easiest and fastest way of making her lose stress. 

You start taking the world less seriously and let go of responsibilities. Let her feel that way.

But you can also do what I mentioned before: give her a big hug for several good seconds. You are making her feel loved and desired. 

And in that state she CAN’T feel stress. [4, 5]

5. Touch her constantly

This is probably the biggest, most important part to this whole process. Touching a girl is the key to her sexuality.

(To learn how to make a girls body feel incredible and get mind-blowing orgasms like the above video you might be surprised to find out that this course is for you!)

Imagine seeing a gorgeous girl in a bikini. The type that makes you rock hard in 10 seconds. That’s the same effect that you are having on a girl when you touch her the way she likes it.

This is part of foreplay. And foreplay for women is just as important as the sex is!

How do you start?

The first thing you want to do is get on your couch with her and put your arm around her. Work your way slowly, you are building sexual tension. 

Check out her bracelet and play with her hands. Do the same with her necklace. If you can give her a light massage. 

Then go in for the kiss.

You are looking for a light kiss. Nothing serious yet.

And as you do that pull her body in towards you. Give her a full body experience.

Hold yourself back from making out. You want to take things as slow as possible. This is how you are seductive to women.

As you work it, pull her hair (only from the roots). It’s a big turn on for girls. 

And as you get more passionate with the kissing pull harder on her hair and put your hand on her inner thigh. You are building up the pressure and waiting for her to explode.

If you can put your other hand on top of her vagina with her clothing on and apply just enough pressure that she can feel you.

Now she will naturally start getting wet. If you are naturally good at making a girl horny there is no place for lube. 

Now you can start getting down and dirty! The power of touching a girl must never be underappreciated. [4]

6. Look at her in the eye

Women are attracted to the masculine energy that you put out.

So here’s a way that you can make her feel your dominant masculine energy. Look at her dead in the eyes.

You are looking at her in a way that says “I know I am sexually attractive and you are going to follow my lead.” 

This goes without saying, but please don’t hold eye contact for 5 minutes!

Sure, eye contact can make her feel connected to you like nothing else, but when you do it for too long you’ll freak her out.

When she looks away you look away. Be self-aware. Pay attention to how she’s feeling, that’s the key to all women. [6]

7. Talk dirty to her

Girls love it when a guy talks dirty to them in that calm, confident voice. You know what else it does to them? It makes horny!

When you’ve perfected that whispery, calm, sexy voice you want, use it all the time when you are getting into it. She’ll be on fire.

Send her a text before she even gets home:

  1. I am getting hard thinking about you riding me
  2. I am so horny thinking about your eyes that you better get ready for tonight
  3. Come home right now I need to be with that sexy body

Say this while she’s kissing:

  1. I love how your hands hold me 
  2. Your lips are delicious I can’t hold myself back
  3. I can’t control my libido around you

Tease her about her dirtiness. Girls won’t admit it, but they love being teased.

Tell her this to tease her:

  1. You are a naughty girl and I must punish you
  2. You need to be taken control of because you can’t behave
  3. If you don’t bend over now I’ll force myself into you
  4. You are know how to behave you little slut
  5. Swallow it all, B*tch
  6. Show my how fucked up your mind is
  7. When I fuck your mouth you keep it open, understand?
  8. Your pretty little body deserves to be fucked

Adding in a little role-play is enough to make any girl cum. Let her call you daddy and be the dominant father! [7, 8]

8. Create a sexy environment

Having a sexy environment is crucial for letting her release the stress and building up the sexual tension. But how can you do that?

The first thing you can do is dim the lights. Dim lights make her mind relax and let her feel safer.

But you gotta make sure you have enough lights on for a couple reasons:

  1. So that you can see what you are doing
  2. Make sure your condom is on correctly!
  3. Connect to her through eye contact

But just dimming the lights can really help.

The next thing you want to do is have a good smelling room. Grab yourself some scented candles and you’ll also have a very romantic looking room with those flickering candles.

Girls also love when your room looks nice. Make everything look neat and tidy.

This makes a girl feel much more at home and safe to be with you.

9. Ask her what turns her on

Girls (also us too) can go crazy for something specific, here are some examples:

  1. Six back
  2. Long hair
  3. Being humiliated
  4. Deep voice 
  5. Be choked
  6. Uncontrollable boldness
  7. Being tied down
  8. Candles

It can really be anything, your job is to be the detective and find those things. And when you do use them! You will see another girl come out of her in the form of a slut.

She will get so intensely sexual you won’t believe it.

And don’t feel ashamed to ask her what makes her aroused. Maybe not the first date, but do her a favor and ask her when you think the time is right.

10. Show her intense desire

Let me first quote to you my favorite book on seduction “The Art of Seduction” from Robert Greene:

“A woman never quite feels desired and appreciated enough. She wants attention, but a man is too often distracted and unresponsive. The Rake is a great female fantasy figure – when he desires a woman, brief though that moment might be, he will go to the ends of the earth for her.”

In other words, when you show a girl that you desire her so deeply and you are so hopelessly deep in love for her she will fall deeply in love with you

You can’t use this seduction technique the second you approach a girl because you will freak her out. But you can do a modified version of this:

After you’ve introduced yourself and she kinda knows who you are, tell her in a scared, stuttering voice “I.. I… rea.. really like you…”.

You are telling her that she had such an effect on you that you can’t speak normally. Most girls will laugh it off, but deep inside they can’t stop thinking about what you said.

And of course, once you’re in bed with her you can go all out. Bring out that raw, animalistic desire from inside of you and take it out on her.

11. Kiss her body

As you know by now, seducing a girl and putting her in that horny state of mind is all about taking it slow.

Nervous, insecure people rush things. Not you.

I mentioned this earlier when we talked about touching her, but let’s get into more detail…

The goal here is to give her a full body experience. I women can get horny from all of her erogenous zones.

These are some erogenous zones:

  1. The nape/ back of her neck
  2. Her inner thighs 
  3. Her armpits
  4. Her earlobes
  5. The small of her back
  6. Her lower stomach

When you kiss a girl’s body you want to cover all of those erogenous zones. You want her body to tremble in pleasure.

The first thing you do is look at her in her eyes deeply in a way that makes her feel your dominance and power.

Next you bring her closer and give her a light kiss. Then let go.

You are playing the push/pull game. Never fully giving what she wants to make her always come back for more.

Do it again, give her a light kiss. Make sure you are sitting right next to her now, nothing is more awkward than kissing a girl 3 feet away.

Now you can start to tug on her hair as we mentioned. Just make sure you only pull from the roots of her hair, otherwise it’s painful for her.

You are staying calm and while you are building up the pressure start giving her a little tongue. While you are doing this you can slide your hand onto her inner thigh.

Again, there is no reason to rush. This is the part that girls love.

Take a break and start kissing the nape of her neck. As you do that, place your hand on top of her vagina with her clothes still on and apply just enough pressure that she can feel it.

Move over to her ear and kiss it. Now you are ready to begin undressing her.

When she takes her bra off, kiss the small of her back. You are showing her your boiling desire for every inch of her body.

When you finish with her back, turn her over, and cover all of her erogenous zones with kisses including her nipples before you start eating her pussy.

12. Take her clothing off slowly

I skipped over this before, but it’s an important part of the flow:

Offer her a massage when you take her to your house.

When she’s lying down on your bed face down tell her that it would be a lot easier if she took off her shirt.

Help her out and once you do that you continue with the kissing until you feel ready to take her bra off. Then just follow the steps with the kissing that we mentioned earlier to take her to level 1000 horniness. 

Summary:

Alright I get it, this was a long post, but I’m sure you learnt a lot…

But I’m sure you are wondering where did I learn all of this from? Good question.

I used to be the most insecure guy. You know how I mentioned that you need to take seduction slowly, it’s because I used to rush everything.

I used to talk, eat, and live life in such a rushed state of mind. I was the most unattractive man.

But I’ve changed my life to become a man that can get nearly any girl I want even though I am average looking!

And I didn’t get there without a lot of work. I had many, many failures and horrible rejections. I took a ton of action over years and you need to do the same.

But I also took a seduction and love course called The Tao of Badass. I won’t waste your precious time telling you all about it when it’s all on their website.

So if you are committed and serious about getting women aroused around you, having a threesome with hot lesbian sisters or getting hookups whenever you like you must do yourself a favor and invest in that course.

When you have the right guidance and you take massive action, you’ll get massive results.

Your friend, 

Colt

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