100 Weird [And Unusual] Questions To Ask A Girl

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Weird questions can be a fun way to get to know a girl and their little quirks better.

Let’s get those minds turning with the following 100 weird questions that can actually lead up to extremely interesting and fun conversations.

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1. What does your dream closet look like?

Is she a clothing collector? Or does she just have the essentials?

2. What does your dream bathroom look like?

A giant crystal bathtub with a washer and dryer too? A separate toilet room?

3. Do you prefer baths or tubs?

Soak in the water or rinse off the rubble of the day…

4. What is the weirdest conversation you have overheard?

Has she heard someone being caught cheating… that’s the most uncomfortable thing.

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5. If you were a color which color would you be?

Is she bright and happy and yellow like the sunshine, or gray and moody like a storm cloud?

6. What is the strangest thing you have ever eaten?

Oh the list of possibilities…

7. When was the last time you screamed at the top of your lungs?

Did she do it at the top of a mountain or into a pillow?

8. What is the ugliest thing you own?

An ugly Christmas sweater or an old chewed up stuffed animal?

9. What is the grossest ice-cream flavor you have tried?

There are so many exotic flavors.

10. Do you like making gingerbread houses?

How much spirit does she like in the season?

11. What is something you don’t like for absolutely no reason?

Everyone has a random thing they hate that is completely inexplainable.

12. What’s your strange addiction?

Dipping something in ketchup, or is it a little more awkward than that?

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13. What is something that makes you cringe?

What makes her super uncomfortable?

14. What is the best “less is more” example you can think of?

Talking… people always listen to the quiet ones more.

15. What is your ideal window view?

Snowflakes and a forest, or the ocean sand and waves?

16. What is the weirdest gift someone has given you?

Was it a memory or materialistic?

17. What is the worst thing someone can do that is not illegal?

Well.. there’s a lot, get her thoughts on this. Probably cheating on someone.

18. Have you ever done anything illegal?

Stolen, drink and drive…


19. Would you rather wear clown shoes or a clown hat everyday?

She’ll surely think about this.

20. If you could choose to be pied, what flavor would you want it to be?

What’s her favorite pie to lick off her face. Apple pie? Chocolate mud pie?

21. Are eyelashes facial hair?

hehe, food for thought.

22. What do you think about people shaving off their eyebrows and drawing them on?

What is the point of that… She may or not not be able to explain that one.

23. Do you think makeup is false advertisement?

Does she think that drawing on a face is sending a false message?

24. Can a cemetery raise its prices and blame it on the cost of living?

Funny, morbid but funny.

25. Do you wake up or open your eyes first?

Does she lay there awake with her eyes closed every morning?

26. What do you want to grow out of?

Hopefully not her clothes.

27. What is your healthiest habit?

Does she wake up and workout every morning?

28. What is your least healthy habit?

Does she wake up and check her phone every morning?

29. Where do you want to retire?

On a Caribbean island? Or on a pond in the woods?

30. Where do you feel the most safe?

Around certain people or in a certain place?

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31. What do you think your mission in life is?

What is her life purpose? Is she living it?

32. How come cats ears go back when you talk to them?

Are they listening all the time?

33. How come dogs like to smell each others butts?

Yummy, farts.

34. If a criminal turns himself in should he get the reward money?

I mean it makes sense, right?

35. Flip flops, sandals, heels, or tennis shoes?

Barefoot is the way to go.

36. What is your favorite candy?

Does she thrive off of chocolate bars?

37. How do you like your eggs?

Does she even like eggs? Or is she all about that avocado toast?

38. What are five things you cannot live without?

Are the things actually people?

39. What is the best style potato?

Scalloped.. duh.

40. Do you prefer cats or dogs?

Is she more intelligent and an introvert? Or playful and dumb?

41. What is the most useful thing you have been taught?

If she could share it with the world what would it be?

42. Do you believe in astrology?

Does she blame her behavior on the stars?

43. What is your sun, moon, mercury, venus and mars sign?

Can she tell you her most prominent signs in the stars?

44. What is your favorite day of the week?

Is she a Saturday lover and a Sunday scary type?

45. Who is your celebrity crush?

Does she have one? Or does she need the emotional bond?

46. If you could find out the last day of the world would you?

Does she like the unknown?

47. Do you think I am as sexy as I think I am?

Give her a little flirtation.

48. Do you know how to keep a secret?

Is she trustworthy?

49. Are you naughty or nice?

Is she on Santa’s nice or naughty list?

50. Do you delete chain mail?

How does she respond to all her emails?

51. Do you have secret family recipes?

Maybe she’ll cook for you… if you are nice.

52. Where would you go on a free trip?

What’s on her travel bucket list?

53. Do you think a person is defined by their past?

Or do you think they are defined by how they react to their circumstances?

54. What is your favorite midnight snack?

Does she get the munchies late at night?

55. Would you rather go to an insane asylum or a prison?

Be stuck with the crazies or be one with them?

56. If you had the opportunity to live forever would you choose to?

Or is part of the beauty of life death?

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57. What memory do you keep going back to?

What does she always come back to?

58. What is your most unusual fear?

What is she afraid of that makes no sense?

59. What is your favorite tv show?

Is she the comedy, drama, thriller, or violent type?

60. Which age was your absolute favorite?

Do they just keep getting better?

61. What is the most ridiculous argument you have ever had?

Who was it with?

62. What is your biggest life lesson?

What would she share with generations forever and ever?

63. What painting has had the biggest impact on you?

Was it an abstract painting or something with order?

64. What book character do you relate to?

Who speaks to her?

65. Would you consider yourself open or close minded?

Pay attention… a lot of people who consider themselves open minded are actually very close minded.

66. Do you think you’re politically correct?

Or is it a free-fall?

67. What animal do you relate to?

Does she think of herself as a kitty, an elephant, etc?

68. Who is the most humble person you have met?

Someone in her family? Is she humble?

69. Who is the cockiest person you have ever met?

Someone in her family? A teacher?

70. What is your weirdest family tradition?

Does she have weird family traditions over the holidays?

71. What is your most used app on your phone?

Will she share it with you?

72. What is your favorite joke?

Is she the knock knock type?

73. What is in your pockets right now?

Is her pocket full of sunshine?

74. Spiderman or Superman?


75. What is the craziest prank you have played on someone?

Has she made other people laugh or is she generally the laughing stock?

76. Would you dye your hair a funky color?

Is she a classic blonde or brunette or does she like reds and purples?

77. What is the kinkiest sex act you have done?

Or is she shy?

78. Have you ever shoplifted?

Has she ever picked up a pair of sunglasses or earrings without paying?

79. Do you like dancing naked in the rain?

Who doesn’t?

80. Do you sleep naked?

Again… who doesn’t?

81. Would you like to be a mermaid for a day?

Does she love to be under the sea?

82. Hairy or clean-shaven men?

Proper or rugged?

83. Do you have any collectibles?

Like coins passed down?

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84. Do you remember your dreams when you wake up?

Does she keep a dream journal?

85. Tell me about your scariest nightmare.

Does she have a lot of them?

86. If you had to describe yourself as a fruit which fruit would you be?

Is she sweet like a strawberry?

87. Do you consider yourself laid back or uptight?

Go with the flow or go against the grain? Maybe she is a bit of both.

88. What is the craziest thing you did when you were a kid?

Does she remember?

89. Have you ever gone tanning naked?

Or is she a more modest type?

90. Would you ever ask a guy on a date?

How bold does she get?

91. How do you want to be remembered when you die?

As the girl who never gave up?

92. How many kids do you want if money wasn’t an object?

If she could have kids without a budget would she have more?

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93. If you could travel back in time what era would you travel to?

What time does she wish she was born in?

94. How many pillows do you sleep with?

Does she keep one between her thighs?

95. Do you believe in soulmates?

Or life partners?

96. Have you had a lucid dream?

Those are fun.

97. Do you know any magic tricks?

Can she play her cards right?

98. Do you want to travel to outer space?

And does she believe in aliens too?

99. Can you read me your last text message that you received?

Was it dirty?

100. What was the last text message you sent?

Does she get all tense? Ironically, this can be a weird question to send over text!


These questions range all over the board and will have some weird responses, as everyone is different and that’s what makes everyone unique and beautiful!

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About the author 

Coach Colt here, the founder of Dating Armory, your go-to source for no-nonsense, practical relationship advice. I'm a bisexual male in a same-sex open relationship and a researcher in sex, love, and relationships with 7+ years of experience. I specialize in helping both men and women navigate the crazy world of dating.

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