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12 Creative Ways to Tell a Girl You Like Her Over Text

Before we get into telling a girl that you like her over text, I want you to remember a couple things:

  1. Don’t worry because this is just over text so the rejection can’t be that bad
  2. Be authentic, girls can tell if you really mean it – even over text
  3. Do your best to follow as many steps in this post and comment if you have any questions!

Anyways, let’s get started!

1. When to tell a girl you like her over text

Whether you’re the bad boy or Mr. Nice guy, you never want to act like Mr. Creepy. Take your time, you don’t want to confess your feelings right away.

Ideally, you want to flirt with her until she can’t sleep at night because she’s even not sure if you like her or not. You want to make her beg for it.

When you approach a girl, you never want to say “I like you.” Instead, give a compliment, ask her out and only once you’ve teased her, kissed her and even slept with her do you say anything about loving her.

You want every girl that talks to you to think the same thing “does he like me? I hope he likes me! He better like me!” The more mysterious you are, the more seductive you are.

Although, once you see enough signs that this girl likes you, try any of the following techniques to tell your girlfriend that you like her over text:

2. The direct way

Do not say:

  1. Hi, uhm, ah, so I kinda like you
  2. Maybe we’d go well together because I like you

None of that! Tell her the direct, bold, bad boy way as described in my article Why Do GIRLS Like Bad Boys And What To Do Now. Here are some examples:

  1. Girl, I like you.
  2. I need more of you
  3. Hi beautiful, I need more time with you
  4. I’m into you girl

The direct way isn’t about what you say, it’s about how you say it. Do you sound confident or needy? The bad boy always sounds confident.

But be very careful with this direct technique because it can freak girls out. Ask her about her day first, found out how she’s feeling, then tell her how much you like her.

But of course, this is a risky move: she might come over and give you the time of your life or you could get friend-zoned. [1, 2]

3. Tell a girl that you like her over a casual text conversation

Start a casual texting conversation. Ask her about her day. Make some jokes, laugh around. Warm her up.

Now you text her this:

  1. Hey [her name], I really like you, what do you think about getting some coffee sometime?
  2. I like texting you, but I like talking even more. Let’s grab lunch at [restaurant name].
  3. I can tell that you’re super cute even over text, I love it!
  4. You’re making me undress you in my mind, stop it!

However, here are 3 things you never want to do while texting a girl:

Don’t use too many emojis

Emojis are for girls. You are not a girl.

Never send any of these: 💚💋😱😋😘. Those are exclusively for girls. If you do send emojis stick with this one 😉. 

Don’t go crazy about grammar

Remember, you are just flirting with her over text. You want to keep the energy playful, and if you do misspell something, never apologize!

OK, don’t write like this: sknfo mfmkekf! But you get the point…

Don’t message bomb a girl

When you send too many “I like you” texts, you look needy as heck which will send you right into the friend zone (and good luck getting out of the friend through text!).

Here’s the rule: never send more than one text before she responds. And in general, don’t respond immediately to her texts, let her wait for your reply.

telling a girl that you like her over text

4. Use The Compliment-Appreciation Technique to show how much you like her

The Compliment-Appreciation Technique is a system that I created to solve one problem: people hate receiving constant messages about how beautiful and liked they are.

Just imagine how it would feel being told how beautiful and wonderful you are 24/7… You’d feel like you’re being treated like a little kid who needs everyone’s validation!

That’s why you use the Compliment-Appreciation Technique. Instead of telling her outright how much you like her, you express appreciation for her which makes her feel loved and cared for.

Here’s how it works:

You text a girl about your appreciation for her (“Hey [her name], thanks so much for coming over. BTW, I loved that dress!”) and she realizes that you like her without you saying anything about that!

Appreciation is also a great way to confess your feelings without sounding needy!

Here are some great examples:

  1. Hey [her name], thanks so much for coming over. BTW, I loved that dress!
  2. The way you did you make up this morning blew me out of the water! I couldn’t stop looking at your red, hot lips…
  3. I love what you did with your hair today, you must be the cutest girl in the city!

Want to know another great advantage to showing appreciation? You will never get rejected or get locked up in the nearest friend zone!

5. Text her that you like her in a funny way

Whenever you can, always use humor. Which is why I always inject humor into my text messages no matter what I’m doing.

Here are some text message examples for you:

  1. Oh’ gosh, you like that movie! We are officially BFF’s
  2. OK , we can kiss, but only if you say please
  3. I know how crazy you feel about me, but tonight’s not the best day for hooking up
  4. You know you’re such a spoiled brat around me and you love it
  5. Remind me that you deserve a spanking when we get home, I know you can’t resist
  6. Tell me when you finish writing your love song about me
  7. If you keep texting me I’ll ruin your innocence
  8. We’ve just met and gushed over me, can you please wait until we go on at least a couple dates?
  9. By the way, you can always copy her text messages and send them right back as joke

As you can already tell, it’s much easier and a lot smoother to tell a girl you love her when you’re being funny. Plus, girls are very attracted to a guy that can make them laugh!

By the way, while doing this, you’re essentially flirting with your girl over text (read more: How To FLIRT With a GIRL Over Text And AROUSE Her).

6. Text her a compliment her so that she knows you like her

Compliments are another indirect way of telling a girl you like her that a lot of guys use because it’s 100% rejection proof! No girl will ever turn away a compliment.

Let me give your some examples:

  1. You have the cutest eyes and you don’t even know it
  2. Your smile makes me smile
  3. You have a naturally good sense of style and I like it
  4. You have an adorable smile
  5. You have the sexiest lips
  6. You are so adorable

Want some more examples? Read Best 100 Compliments For a GIRLFRIEND.

But as you are doing complimenting her, keep these rules in mind:

  1. Keep the compliment personal
  2. Be authentic
  3. Make her feel special

7. Tell a girl why you love her

You can either:

  1. Tell a girl that you like her
  2. Tell a girl why you like her

Telling a girl why you like her is a much better way of showing love because you’re backing it up with a reason, you are not just throwing out facts.

You aren’t just sending her a text “I like you” and waiting awkwardly for her response. Instead you are sending her something like this:

  1. I love you because I can’t get over your cuteness
  2. If I you don’t top smiling I’ll be forced to fall in love with you
  3. You’re the naughtiest girl I’ve met and I love it!
  4. Oh’ don’t you dare dress like that because you know what it does to my mind!

Once you send her this, she’ll know what you feel about her and you definitely won’t be waiting awkwardly for a text back.

8. Tell her you like being with her

Don’t text anything about her beauty, cuteness or how much you love her. Instead, just mention how much you love spending time with her.

Works just as well 99% of the time.

9. Text her in a sexual way

In which way do you like this girl?

  1. As a friend
  2. As your girlfriend

My guess is #2, so give her a sexual compliment and make her avoid the friend zone! Here are some examples:

  1. Just so you know, my dick won’t let me stop thinking about you
  2. Why do you have such control over my level of horniness
  3. Your sexy, red dress is working wonders on me!
  4. If you keep playing with your lips that way, I’ll lose control over my body
  5. You’re one hell of a busty girl

And guess what? If you encourage her sexuality, she might express more of it!

10. Show a girl you like her by asking her out

At the end of the day, texting is only a means to an end, the real goal is to connect with her, kiss her and take her home.

So why not show your love by asking her out over text? Here are some great examples:

  1. Hey [Her Name], you must be the prettiest girl in the city, let’s grab a coffee at Starbucks
  2. I I love texting, but why don’t we continue our conversation at [Name Restaurant] 
  3. You got a super sweet personality, how about we grab a coffee later today?

Once you do this, she’ll know that you like her and it won’t be that hard to get her to kiss her or even take her to your place.

11. How to tell a girl you like her over text examples

Let’s me pool together all the examples I’ve given you so far and give you some bonus text message examples:

  1. I can’t understand how you get sexier everyday, but I love it!
  2. I’ll admit, I keep staring at your profile picture because I can’t get you out of my mind
  3. The way you dress is making me fall for you
  4. I need more of you
  5. Hi beautiful, I need more time with you
  6. I’m into you girl
  7. Hey [her name], I really like you, what do you think about getting some coffee sometime?
  8. I like texting you, but I like talking even more. Let’s grab lunch at [restaurant name].
  9. I can tell that you’re super cute even over text, I love it!
  10. You’re making me undress you in my mind, stop it!
  11. Hey [her name], thanks so much for coming over. BTW, I loved that dress!
  12. The way you did you make up this morning blew me out of the water! I couldn’t stop looking at your red, hot lips…
  13. I love what you did with your hair today, you must be the cutest girl in the city!
  14. Oh’ gosh, you like that movie! We are officially BFF’s
  15. OK , we can kiss, but only if you say please
  16. I know how crazy you feel about me, but tonight’s not the best day for hooking up
  17. You know you’re such a spoiled brat around me and you love it
  18. Remind me that you deserve a spanking when we get home, I know you can’t resist
  19. Tell me when you finish writing your love song about me
  20. If you keep texting me I’ll ruin your innocence
  21. We’ve just met and gushed over me, can you please wait until we go on at least a couple dates?
  22. You have the cutest eyes and you don’t even know it
  23. Your smile makes me smile
  24. You have a naturally good sense of style and I like it
  25. You have an adorable smile
  26. You have the sexiest lips
  27. You are so adorable
  28. I love you because I can’t get over your cuteness
  29. If I you don’t top smiling I’ll be forced to fall in love with you
  30. You’re the naughtiest girl I’ve met and I love it!
  31. Oh’ don’t you dare dress like that because you know what it does to my mind!
  32. Don’t make me come over and hug you
  33. I like you even more when you get dressed like that
  34. You are so adorable, I might just be in love with you
  35. Ok, be honest, what love potion are you using on me?

Here’s another funny example: “mistakenly” ask her a question over text that was “supposed” to be sent to one of your friends asking “how do I tell [your girl’s name] that I love her?” and then just wait for her response!

Side note: feel free to edit any of my examples to make them more personalized.

12. Dealing with rejection over text

Sometimes girls will reject your advances even if you said all the right words at the right time. And that’s OK, not every girl has to like you.

But let me quote you from my favorite dating course, The Rise of The Phoenix – How to Get The Hottest Girls in a World That Wants You to Fail by Sebastian Harris:

Do I think that texting is evil? Not at all! Texting is great. It’s great to make her smile, to make her laugh, and to deepen the connection. 

But what if you want to set up a date? Don’t text her! I don’t say this because I’m mean, I say this because I understand one simple psychological principle: It’s easy to answer a question with, “No,” but it’s even easier to say nothing at all when the question comes in the form of a text message.

Calling is king. 

90% of all the dates I ever went on were the result of me calling the girl. Not me texting her, not me sending a carrier pigeon, and not me stalking her with a spyglass (please don’t do that.) 

I call to set up dates and it takes approximately 76 seconds. Sometimes I manage to close the deal in under 60 seconds. Sometimes it takes 90 seconds…but only with foreign girls who “not good speak English.” 

If you follow my blueprint, it shouldn’t take longer than 76 seconds to go from, “Hey, it’s [YOUR NAME],” to, “See you on Sunday.”

He then goes on to explain his calling blueprint which usually gets you the date within a minute or two, but here’s the point:

Texting isn’t the best way to connect with a girl because it makes it much easier for a girl to reject you.

But whenever you do get rejected, I want you to never take it personally, just move on as quickly as possible because you need to improve your pickup skills.

Crying about the girl that rejected you is only going to lower your value as a man and waste time that could’ve been spent with a prettier girl.

Summary:

I’ve given you all the tips and tricks that you could ever need for telling a girl that you love her over text, but you’re still missing one crucial ingredient:

Confidence!

With solid confidence you won’t be worrying about texting. You’ll be doing this face to face when you’re in bed with a super hot chick.

With confidence you’ll smash your approach anxiety and girls will feel a natural attraction for you. But how can you get your natural confidence back?

Simple, get a system that’ll teach you all steps you need to take and with time you’ll reclaim the badass you truly are.

But what training do I recommend? I recommend you try out The Collection of Confidence by Hypnotica simply because he focuses on building confidence like nobody else.

Your friend,

Colt Smith

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