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We both know that you could compliment a girl about her:

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    Ear rings...

But surprisingly, there is only one type of compliment that will make a girl fall in love with you.

Do you know which one that is?

Complimenting a girl's eyes.

Girls absolutely love getting compliments about their eyes and once you know how to compliment a girl's eyes, girls will find you irresistible.

complimenting a girls eyes

1. Compliment the color of her eyes

If you’ve read my article titled 10+ Ways to Tell a Girl She's Beautiful and Pretty With Examples, you’ll know this technique already.

However, if you’re new to Dating Armory, here’s how this super easy, 2-step technique works:

Step 1: Look into her iris (the colored part of her eye) and find out what color her eyes are.

Quick tip: her eye color will usually fall into one of the following:

  • Amber
  • Blue
  • Brown
  • Gray
  • Black
  • Green 
  • Hazel
  • Red

Step 2: Give her a compliment based on her eye color.

Need some ideas? Just pick from below!

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    Are they brown? Why not tell her that she’s got the hottest coffee-colored eyes you’ve ever seen
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    Are they blue? Tell her that she’s got the calmest blue eyes ever
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    Are they green? Tell her that she’s got the perfect shade of green
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    Are they gray? Tell her that she’s got the most intense, stone grey eyes ever!

To get some practice, just watch the following YouTube video and think of what you’d tell her:

You might be wondering: why does this technique work so well on girls?

Good question! 

It’s because you're appreciating the details of her beauty, not just commenting on her general looks. [1, 2]

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2. Use The Compliment-Appreciation Technique

Here’s a secret technique that most guys are totally oblivious of and here’s how it works:

You compliment your girlfriend by appreciating her beauty instead of flooding her with a non-stop barrage of compliments.

Showing her how you appreciate her beauty makes her feel cared for, unlike the bribing feeling that compliments give (“If I give you enough compliments, you need to be my friend”).

Now I know you want to see some examples, so here they are:

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    The cuteness in your eyes is God’s gift to me
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    I love seeing your angelic eyes every morning

Here are some other examples from the (must read) article titled 12 Creative Ways to Tell a Girl You Like Her Over Text [With Examples]

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    Hey [her name], thanks so much for coming over. BTW, I loved that dress!
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    The way you did you make up this morning blew me out of the water! I couldn’t stop looking at your red, hot lips…
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    I love what you did with your hair today, you must be the cutest girl in the city!
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    Thanks for wearing that sundress, you know what I like [wink]
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    What can I say? You made my day!

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Now that you know how it works and exactly what to say, you may be left with one huge problem: 

“I’m too scared to approach a girl and compliment her this way!”

In that case, I prescribe (as your doctor, of course) that you read the following excerpt from The Rise of The Phoenix: How to Get The Hottest Girls in a World That Wants You to Fail by Sebastian Harris:

(By the way, if you don’t already own a copy of this Dating & Sex Guide, I’m not sure what you’re waiting for!)

I wanted to ask you what it costs to have sex with a hooker.
Wait, what? Yep. I want to know the price of a hooker. Twenty minutes, in and out… What do you have to pay?
Okay, if you’re living in Thailand it costs twenty dollars and if you’re living in Norway you have to pay $200.
Let’s say that it costs $100. And no, this chapter is not about banging hookers.
Stick with me on this one, it will all make sense. Let’s say you have to pay $100 to f@#k a prostitute. That’s the value of getting laid.
This is the mindset you need to have:
Every approach is worth 100 bucks.
Every time you have the courage to walk up to a girl, to introduce yourself, and to give her a compliment is worth 100 bucks.
Now let me ask you a question:
Would you approach a girl if I gave you $100 for every approach? Of course you would!

Okay, maybe you’re a millionaire and you don’t need the money.
But in case you aren’t, you would do it. Think about that the next time a beautiful woman walks past you.
I learned this principle from an extremely successful sales manager who told me that he approaches every customer with the thought that he will make a sale.
His average sale was worth $100. Your average approach is worth the same.
Act accordingly.

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example of a girls eyes and where you want to compliment her

3. Use The Indirect-Compliment Technique

What!? Another super complex technique! 

Please forgive me, but I doing this to make you the most attractive man in town, so let’s learn The Indirect-Compliment Technique together:

Step 1: Find some quality worth complimenting 

Step 2: Compliment it indirectly by saying how that quality makes you feel

Wasn’t that bad, was it?

Well let me give you some examples:

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    The color of your eyes makes me irresistibly attracted to you
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    Your perfect eyes turn me on
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    You should be careful with your seductive eyes because I’m already feeling the affects
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    If only you knew how your eyes make me fall in love
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    I have a hard time thinking straight whenever I look into your eyes

This is especially powerful because you are essentially saying that she’s too desirable to pull yourself away and there is no better way to flatter a girl than that!

example of a girl with beautiful eyes

If you want to seem extra seductive, here’s a better way of applying The Indirect-Compliment Technique:

Start to compliment her eyes, but then stop as if you couldn’t continue because she took your breath away with her sheer beauty, for example:

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    Your eyes are like...
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    Those eyes…
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    [look into her eyes] OMG…
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    I’ve never seen eyes so….
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    If only you knew how beautiful…

This indirectly compliments her because she knows how crazy you feel about her which then allows her to fantasize about what you really meant to tell her.

You know what they say: The greatest compliment is the mysterious compliment!


4. Give a genuine and sincere compliment

Let me ask you a question: when your mom compliments you about some housework you’ve done, can you tell if she’s being sincere?

Of course you can!

Well so can girls.

So how can you sound more sincere? 

Easy! Just follow these simple steps before you approach any girl:

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    Relax your body (as mentioned in 8 Steps To Compliment a Girl
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    Let yourself feel it’s natural attraction to her
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    Appreciate the specific quality you want to compliment
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    Think of the best words so that you sound as unique as possible
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    Say the compliment with confidence!

Once you’ve given her the compliment and started a conversation, follow what Richard La Ruina teaches in the following YouTube video and you’ll be all set!

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5. Give creative compliments

Can we all agree that the following compliments are simply terrible…

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    Hi, you look pretty, what do you do? 
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    You're so much prettier/taller/nicer in person. [5]
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    You have such a great personality.
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    You have nice hair…
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    I like how you look, so what are you up to…

The reason why those “compliments” are so bad is because they are so boring, uninspiring and simply meaningless!

This is not what you want! Your goal is to stand out from other guys by being creative.

Here’s what I mean:

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    You have the most impressive blue eyes ever, you look so cute, how is this even possible!
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    You're making all the other girls jealous with your perfect eyes, keep them closed!
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    Your eyes stand out in the most perfect ways that I can’t stop looking at them...

It’s always better when you think of the compliment yourself, however if you need some more ideas be sure to check out Best 100 Compliments For a GIRLFRIEND. [1, 2]

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6. Use The Overflow-Compliment Technique

What’s The Overflow-Compliment Technique?

You focus on one beautiful detail of your girl, i.e. her eyes, and tell her how it makes her look so much cuter as a whole. 

In other words, by using this technique you are telling her that the cuteness of her eyes overflows to the rest of her body. 

Let me give you some examples:

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    Wow, your big, blue eyes make you look so cute
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    I swear you’ve reached the limits of cuteness with those perfect eyes
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    I can’t get over how cute your eyes make you look
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    Your eyes make you the cutest girl ever!

You aren’t just focusing on her eyes, you're focusing on her entire beauty which is what makes her feel like a princess.

By now I’m sure you already own The Rise of The Phoenix by Sebastian Harris, but let me quote you from his book again because he spells out this concept so clearly:

Sorry but, “Did you just fart, you blew me away,” or, “Do you work at Subway? You gave me a foot-long,” won’t cut it.
Forget about pickup lines. Individual compliments are the way to go. Forget about the old, “You look really nice,” compliment. I mean, come on.
A freaking dog can look nice.
A pizza can look nice.

That says absolutely nothing. Make it personal. Be specific.
Look at her. What do you notice about her? What do you like about her? Why do you want to see her naked?
You like the way her body looks in her red dress. Tell her that.
You love her shining blue eyes and long blonde hair. Tell her that.

You love her feminine walk. Tell her exactly that.
Tell her whatever you think when you see her.
Okay, leave out the, “I want to f@#k the shit out of you,” part. Tell her the PG-13 and not the NC-17 stuff.

To learn more about telling a girl how cute she is, read my post titled 8 Solid Methods to Tell a Girl She’s Cute and Make Her Blush.

a girl that's waiting for an eye compliment

7. Compliment her eyes on the emotions they exude

Instead of talking about how beautiful or cute she is, tell her about the type of emotions her eyes exude, for example:

If she has these bold brown eyes tell her “your eyes are intense.”

She won’t be sure what you really meant by her eyes are intense which will keep her up all night just trying to figure out what you really meant!

Here’s another example:

If she has calm blue eyes tell her “your eyes radiate calmness.”

Sometimes yelling “your eyes are so sexy” while pinning her down and going for the kiss will get her instantly horny and soaking wet.

It all depends on the environment and the girl.


8. Tell her that her eyes look like a famous celebrity

Telling her that her eyes look or remind you of a celebrity is a great way to kindle her imagination and get her to fantasize about what you really feel about her.

Here’s how you do it:

Step 1: Search on Google “most beautiful women in the world” and find the women that stands out to you the most

It might be Jessica Alba, Kristin Kreuk, or Alexandra Daddario, it doesn’t matter as long as you remember her name.

Step 2: Simply tell your girlfriend that her eyes remind you of whatever celebrity you chose.

That’s it!

(By the way, you can also use this technique to compliment a girl’s picture on Tinder. It works nearly every time, I promise!)

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9. Finish off your compliment with a question

When you tell a girl “I swear you’ve reached the limits of cuteness with those perfect eyes” - what is she supposed to say back?

“Oh’ thank you…” - but then what?!

See how the conversation can get super boring (and even awkward) even after a great compliment like that... 

This is why it’s always worth ending your compliments with a question, for example:

“You have the most impressive blue eyes ever, you look so cute, how is this even possible!?”

Now she gets the chance to explain how she manages to be so beautiful which keeps the conversation going, plus you’re giving her the chance to talk about herself which makes you seem even more likeable!


I must congratulate you: you’ve made it till the end! Most guys can’t read past the first paragraph....

However, just reading articles like these aint’ gonna cut it! That’s why you must take the following action:

Doing both of these together won’t only teach you everything you could possibly need to learn, but you’ll also get the motivation to approach any girl you desire!

Good luck, 

Colt Smith


If you have any questions, make sure you leave them in the comments!


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  • I looooooove this article. So many examples of compliments that I will definitely come back to read more! It’s funny I’ve seen many girls that react to these compliments very well!

    • I would start with basic compliments like “you’re looking great” and as you talk and get to know her better, give her more specific compliments such as the ones we mentioned above.

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