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You’ve made it, you have a girlfriend! Congratulations! All you need to learn now is how to navigate her emotions to keep her happy.

You already know what you need to do because she is happy to be your girlfriend. Therefore, I’m not here to teach you anything new about attracting women, I’m just reminding you of what you already know.

I’ll tell you now in advance that I recommend 2 separate courses for different situations.

If you already have a girlfriend and all you want to do is make her the love of your life then get the Supreme Self-Confidence course.

If you are not sure about the girl you have now and you are looking to become a hot, seductive man that women drool over you then get The Tao of Badass.

I’ll tell you more about them soon, but let’s get into the 10 ways to make your woman overjoyed.

1. Get out and go on dates and Get romantic

When you were first with your girlfriend, you must’ve been so romantic and loving with her.

I bet you guys went out all the time, laughing with each other, but then familiarity set in. You began to know each other so deeply that there were no new surprises.

You stopped hanging out and began to watch Netflix together. You need to recreate that emotional energy between the two of you.

So why not surprise her and take her out to a restaurant. Get romantic and sexual.

If you are a little adventurous then go camping out in a forest and have fun with her there. The goal is to have a deep intimate time together.

No phones, no internet only kissing and sucking face.

This is what makes every girl overjoyed. [1, 2]

2. Get along with family and friends

Girls are extremely sensitive to what other people think of them, especially their family and friends.

If she thinks that her family will look down on her because of her relationship with you then expect her to be afraid to commit and love you more.

Her family, whether you like it or not, has a direct impact on your relationship. Especially her father.

You must get along with her family. I don’t care if her mom is annoying, become her friend.

If you have an issue with any of them talk it out and heal the wound.

Any girl will feel much safer around you if her parents approve of you. Whenever you go to her house do you best to make her family laugh and have a great time.

You’ve got to start thinking through the mind of your girl. Ask yourself:

What would she want me to do now?

How would this make her feel?

She will secretly be very grateful that you ‘get it’. [3]

3. Cuddle with her

To girls have a really nice cuddling time is the same as having passionate sex.

They are all about feeling deep love and that’s why cuddling is everything to girls.

You can do it very simply by having her head lead on your shoulder, or as you are sitting down on the couch she can lie down next to you with her head resting on your thigh.

There are plenty of ways to cuddle, she can also sit on your lap facing towards you while you hug and kiss. This is heaven for any girl, this is her dream.

Because you are a man like me, you know that cuddling will turn you on really fast, but hold off and give her some precious cuddle time.

Most men don’t have the confidence to snuggle with their girl.

If you find that your confidence is being held back I think you would really benefit from a course called Supreme Self-confidence.

The course is meant to destroy all of your self-doubt and take back control of your own thoughts.

I’ll tell you more about it soon, but if you can’t wait their website has a lot of information available to you.

4. Have a nickname for her

This is something that guys and girls both love. 

I mean who doesn’t like being called a cute name?

But you will find out that girls have a special weakness for it.

Here are a couple cute nicknames that every girl would love to be called: 

  1. Fluffy
  2. Muffin
  3. Peanut 
  4. Lulu

If she ever asks you why you call her “Fluffy” just tell her “it’s just because you are so fluffy!”.

Whenever I call my girlfriend her nickname, she smiles. I don’t do it ALL the time, but when she is in the right mood she absolutely loves it.

5. Make her friends jealous of her

Like I mentioned earlier girls are very aware and sensitive to what other people think of them and their relationships.

But you can use this to make her really happy. 

If you are hanging out with her friends be confident and cool.

See, most of the success that you will have with women depends on confidence and that’s why I always recommend the Supreme Self-confidence for the guys in relationships.

For the guys looking for a girlfriend I always tell them to get The Tao of Badass course.

Confidence is the key, and that is what you want to show her girlfriends. Make them jealous by looking clean, having nice abs and arms.


This cannot be stressed enough.

When your girlfriend sees that her friends are jealous of her she will receive a massive ego boost. She will feel this new appreciation for you.

Show your girlfriend extra affection when you are with her friends, give her a little kiss and watch how you blow her friends away.

You’ll see this smile creep up on your girl’s face and there really isn’t anything more fulfilling than that. [4]

6. Forgive her

This is something that a lot of people don’t like to talk about. Fights and unhappiness.

What do you do when she’s acting annoying and ruins your day?

What do you do when there is nothing you can do to take your girlfriend or her grumpy, unhappy mood?

Forgive and accept her.

You will find great personal growth in relationships precisely because of this. You will learn to forgive her. 

When she sees that you can forgive and accept her when she will inevitably make mistakes she will be closer to you than ever before.

I learned this awesome trick from The Rise of The Phoenix seduction course. In the course the author, Sebastian Harris, explains why forgiveness can give you incredible power in relationships:

Forgiveness relieves feelings of guilt and shame because we all have feelings that we are not good enough to be loved.

When you forgive her you are basically telling her that you don’t have to be perfect to be loved by me.

Imagine the relief that she’ll get from this. True happiness. She will desire your approval like a child.

We all need to admit that no relationship is perfect no matter what you see in any YouTube vlogs or Instagram photos. We are all imperfect humans.

Instead of denying that you won’t always be happy, why not accept them and use it for growth. [5, 6]

7. Buy her flowers

The best time to buy your girlfriend a present is randomly out of the blue. When she least expects it.

Maybe you’re going to have lunch with her at your place. Why not get some flowers for her and surprise her when she walks in?

This will please any girl.

You are not doing it to “buy her love” – you already have the confidence. You’ve learned what attracts women from The Tao of Badass.

You surprise her with flowers from a place of giving love. You know that you are enough to be loved and now you can share your own goodness with her.

She will be able to feel your energy and will be so excited when you present her with those flowers.

Make sure to give her a nice hug and kiss her really good! [7]

8. Buy her presents

The key here is to make her presents personalized, not expensive.

Men who believe that they need to buy their woman’s love will automatically think that they need to buy a diamond ring.

That is a disaster. She doesn’t really want the money (if she really loves you), she wants to see your love.

And that’s why you need to sit down and ask yourself:

What is my girlfriend really into?

Maybe she loves to draw, so get her a painting set.

If she loves to finger skate then buy her some gloves.

I really don’t think that buying her a phone is really a good idea. Try getting her a thoughtful gift that will really connect you.

9. Do scary things with her to show your fearlessness

Men are attracted to the beauty and femininity of women. But women need the exact opposite to get sexually attracted to a man.

They want a badass. (Hence the name of my favorite course The Tao (“path” in Chinese) of Badass)

Women want a tough guy that goes after what he wants without any compromise.

I remember watching a YouTube video about some guy that handles venomous snakes and the women in the comments were all saying how attractive he is.

Women want you to get sweaty, bloody and work hard to make your dreams come true. 

But, as The Rise of The Phoenix says, you just need something to keep you passionate about life. 

If you love going biking then do more of it. Women will feel your energy and will be attracted to you.

They are not looking for some feminine, nice guy. You really do have to be a bad-ass.

10. Respect her

I know that I just said women want a bad-ass, and I do strongly recommend you get the course, but you need to treat her with respect.

When she is telling you about her day or about something she is passionate about, get interested!

Get involved. 

If she says something you disagree with the best thing you can do is do everything you can to truly understand her.

See women want the best of both worlds. They want to be treated roughly and feel the masculine side of you.

They love the feeling of being overpowered and feeling small. They want you to take control of them.

But they also don’t want to be abused. They want to be loved and respected. This is the perfect recipe to make a woman happy.

Give her the tough, bad-ass, passionate side of you, but also give her that loving side of you.

Summary and Conclusion

You’ve learned a lot of deep principles to the female mind. You know how to come off as confident and powerful.

Women and especially your girl are much more attracted to you because they sense the killer inside of you.

Now you have 2 options to take you female seduction further:

  1. You can get a super deep relationship by getting the Supreme Self-Confidence course that also comes with A TON of other material. OR…
  2. You can build your seduction techniques by investing in yourself by getting The Tao of Badass. If you just want to get laid and get friends with benefits this is for you.

When you take action your mind stops fooling around and you begin to take massive action. Start by choosing one of them.

You don’t have to be great to start, but you need to start to be great.

By the way, let me know in the comments if this has helped you at all.


We’ve been saving the lives of men for years now, and here’s the number one question we get - Where do I start? 😬

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